Thursday, July 31, 2008

Eli's First Trip to the Water Park

[This entry is purely for the grandparents who just want to see videos of the grandkids. Because, honestly, who wants to just see a 7 month old walking in a baby pool and a 3 year old jumping into a baby pool?]

This was our trip to the Sea World water park on Elina's birthday. It was Eli's first time but he was totally into it. He did his "steps" in the baby pool. In this clip, Elina wanted to make sure I got her smiling face, too.

This next clip shows how brave Elina has gotten. Because of swim class, she doesn't mind jumping into the baby pool. This is considered brave for Elina. You can tell that after the last jump, she got a little scared because her footing was off. That's our Elina!

Monday, July 28, 2008

Swimming Pride

Elina recently tried out an Aquatot swimming class, which is the next level up from the class we all took together. B and I were really wary about her even participating. In the Aquatot class, the parent just sits on the side and the child goes into the water with the instructor. Because of Elina's fear of adults she doesn't know well, we thought for sure that Elina would refuse to go into the water. But I figured we'd take her to check it out anyway.

Man, did she prove us wrong! She totally surprised us. She sat down next to the other kids anxiously awaiting her turn. She did a sit dive into the water when the instructor asked her to. And she kicked and moved her arms around like she was really swimming. Each time she jumped in she would look back at me and make sure that I was there and watching her. It's funny because ALL the kids did that. Whenever the kids looked back and saw their parents, they would beam with pride. It was pretty cute.

The instructor said that Elina is definitely ready for Aquatots. I'm so excited for her and I'm so excited that I don't have to go in anymore. When we left the pool, we had the following conversation:

Me: You were so brave! I'm so happy that you went into the water with the teacher!

Elina: Are you so proud of me??

Me: Yup, I'm SO proud of you!

Elina is getting so much better at talking to strangers, adults, and other kids now. She still has her moments where she'll look away and pretend like she doesn't see you. But overall, she's come a long way the past few weeks. She's more comfortable around others now. At the last playgroup she played with the other kids. Normally she plays by herself or with one other friend or she hangs around me, so this was one of the most exciting things for me! She's really growing up and becoming more brave. Thank goodness!

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Look At How She's Grown

At birth--
At 1 year--
At 2 years--
At 3 years--
I thought I'd take a moment to reflect on Elina's 3rd birthday. It's really amazing how quickly 3 years have gone by. This has probably been the most trying year in regards to staying at home. It's not just because of the addition of Eli, but because Elina is now more defiant and more talkative. She's not nearly as bad as the descriptions of the "terrible twos" because she rarely throws tantrums. To date, there has only been ONE instance when I've thought to myself, "This is not my child!" And this didn't even happen until just a few weeks ago. So on the tantrum front, we're really thankful Elina is the way she is.
But the thing about toddlers is that they ...are...sooooooo...slooooooooowwwww. They take forever to do and say things. That's not a bad thing, but they want to do and say everything. That's why they are so funny, yet kinda irritating. There's a running commentary on everything you do. From the moment Elina is awake until she falls asleep, she is talking non-stop. As an outsider, you might think this sounds cute. However, after 2 days of incessant toddler talk, you might want to just claw your eyeballs out.

Staying at home with the kids is a blessing and I'm thankful that I'm able to do that, but after talking to a toddler all day long, I get really tired and cranky. It's tough because I'm constantly repeating myself, saying things slowly, saying things nicely, saying things properly. Sometimes I just don't want to sound nice. Sometimes I just don't want to talk at all. So what do I do? I just repeat myself slowly, nicely, and properly. It's almost impossible to ignore a toddler. Trust me, I've tried.

On the other hand, Elina has come a long way with her grammar and vocabulary. It's amazing. She says the most unexpected things and most of them are pretty funny. So I definitely think that those funny moments make the tedious, continuous commentary worth it.

Elina has become a really nice, sweet little lady. She's polite (most of the time) and seems to care about other people's feelings. She's very helpful around the house, getting me things and putting things away. She's very neat and always asks for a napkin when she makes a mess on the dinner table or on her face. She loves to repeat my rules to her friends when they come over to play ("No, Mommy says we can't take that sticker off"). She's also started to become very independent when it comes to playtime. She and Cuddlebunny pretend to take naps on the couch and have tea parties--all without me! I mean, I'm not invited at all. But I am invited when it comes to playing games. I was so excited that she could start playing games because I LOVE games. However, we seem to play the same games all the time. Crazy Eights is wearing me out, but Elina has such a great time that it's worth it.

Elina's also a good big sister. She likes to show Eli how toys work and tell him what the rules are in the house. She'll hug him and kiss him, but she doesn't like it when Eli accidentally touches her. If his hand brushes her arm, she pulls her arm away quickly. Or if he reaches out to touch/grab her hair or clothes, she turns her head away and covers her eyes. It's a strange sibling relationship. She loves him, but she also dislikes him. But overall she's adjusted well to Eli being around.

All in all, it's been a good year with great mom moments and ugly mom moments. Elina's kept things exciting and we can't wait to see what this next year brings!

Friday, July 25, 2008

I'll Eat Anything

Eli is really into food...I mean, REALLY into food. He's more interested than Elina ever was. I'm hoping that this means he'll be a great eater when he gets a little older. Because I am seriously sick of having a picky eater. Elina is so particular about foods...like her father. It's always a chore to get her to eat enough. I know they say that toddlers eat when they are hungry and can't overeat, but Elina really doesn't eat that much. It's exhausting.

On the other hand, Eli seems to love food. He's always interested in what you're eating or drinking. He looks at you with a pleading face while he licks his lips. When he eats solids, he is all business. He just eats and eats as you shovel and shovel more food into his mouth. If you miss a beat, he'll get mad at you and start screeching and banging his hands on the highchair. If you finish feeding him and he's still hungry, he reacts the same way. He's very demanding during meals. It's nice though because he eats quickly and it's over with. We hope that this means when he gets older he'll eat a lot without complaints.

Here's a video of Eli happily sucking on an edmame shell. Seriously, this kid will try to eat anything you put near his mouth.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Happy 3rd Birthday to Me (A Little Late)!

Hi, everyone! It's me, Elina. The big girl who just turned 3. Can you believe it? I'm 3!! Sorry this post is a little late. I partied too hard for my birthday and am still recovering. I know you've all been DYING to know how my birthday went. So here it goes...

On my birthday we all went to the Sea World water park in the morning...just like we did last year! Only this year, Eli tagged along. It was pretty exciting since it was Eli's first time to the water park. I had to show him the ropes.

This year, the theme for my party was a Lilo and Stitch Happy Hula Birthday Luau. Mommy and Daddy went a little overboard with preparations. Mommy spent all week drawing and painting these really cute pictures of Lilo and Stitch for a photo op. Daddy glued the pictures onto cardboard to make cutouts and he printed up a bunch of Lilo and Stitch window decals to decorate the windows. Mommy and Yaya planned lots of stuff, but they forgot that we're barely 3 and it's just easier to let us run free. Structured activities are for preschoolers and older kids!

Well, it was a great party. All my friends came with their parents. We had Hawaiian pizza, Hawaiian punch, lots of yummy sides (thanks to Ah-Ma), fresh fruit, and a Lilo And Stitch ice cream cake that Mommy made. We also made pasta bracelets, which was lots of fun. Then we just played in the pool and hung out. I really had a blast. I'm finally at an age where I can anticipate my birthday and enjoy the fun and food. I really really love to sing "Happy Birthday" to myself and to anyone else. See for yourself--

This has been a wonderful year for me. I've definitely gotten older and wiser. Here's a list of my current favorite things:
  • shows: Peep and the Big Wide World, the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse
  • Lilo and Stitch
  • games: Crazy Eights, dominoes, Zingo
  • puzzles
  • books: Bear Snores On series, Little Wombat series, Olivia series, Rainbow Fish, and anything Maisy
  • foods: ice cream, popsicles, strawberries, watermelon, peaches, broccoli (who knew??), corn, lollipops, and, of course, chocolate
  • jumping high
  • jumping off stairs
  • any kind of arts and crafts
  • playing on my swingset
  • "swimming"
  • taking my vitamins
  • showing Eli how things are done
  • making everybody watch me do something
  • singing and dancing (which I've always loved to do)
  • Cuddlebunny (BFF!)

Here's a list of some things I dislike:

  • eating meals (I have better things to do.)
  • going to sit in a chair upstairs to "think about" disobeying Mommy and/or Daddy
  • anyone touching my nose
  • anyone touching Cuddlebunny (again, BFF!)

Well, that's me in a nutshell. Thanks for reading my post! Until next time...

Sunday, July 20, 2008

Step, Step, Step...

For months now B has been saying that Eli understands what to do whenever he says, "Step." And for months now I've been telling B that it's not real and that it's just a natural reflex. Plus, I think that B lifts Eli up a little on each side to "encourage" him to take steps. So we were playing the "stepping game" with Eli and I decided to test it out. B had Eli in the ready position and I started shouting out commands that sounded like the word "step." Lo and behold, Eli didn't move at all. I said things like, "sty," "stew," and "stem." Nothing happened. So I said, "Step" and Eli really started to take steps. It was rather amazing. So I finally recorded Eli's "stepping game" below. B just can't believe we haven't recorded or posted this so the whole world can see. So, here you go...the stepping game...

Thursday, July 17, 2008

This Time I Can REALLY Use Chopsticks

Last weekend, we went to eat at a Japanese restaurant while my parents were in town. Elina loves to eat edamame so we always order it. Usually she's really interested in taking the beans out of the shell, but this time she was more interested in picking up the edamame with her chopsticks. I didn't think she could do it, but she proved me wrong! My mom was really impressed because we only use chopsticks at home when we're eating rice, which doesn't happen every single day. So with limited practice, Elina has already become a master with the chopsticks. We were all so impressed and Elina was SO proud of herself! Talk about having Asian blood in you...

Thursday, July 10, 2008

I Can Go Down the Slide!

We've always wanted a swingset for Elina, but never wanted to spend the money or time on it. Elina's always been timid at any playground. She won't climb up a ladder or steps if she sees other kids around. She doesn't like to swing for very long. And she's scared of big slides. (I know, Elina has some issues.) Then I started to realize that when she's the only kid at the playground, she plays really well. So we figured we might help Elina conquer this fear of playgrounds by getting her a swingset of her own. Then maybe she could "practice" on the swing and slide and realize how much fun she could have!

So the swingset search began. We looked everywhere and discovered how much swingsets really cost. It was frightening, but we knew we had to bite the bullet. (We also decided to just make this our birthday gift to her for this year.) We got the most basic set and B decided he would put it in himself. For the past month, B has been working hard. All his spare time was spent on this swingset. He wanted to kill himself. One of the moms from our playgroup lent us her hubby, M, two times. He was SO helpful! After it was up, B had to stain and seal it. Then he built a border around it. Then we got 3 yards of Kiddie Cushion mulch delivered and B had to wheel it to the backyard. He was out there from 9am until 5pm that day. Poor guy.
After it was completed, we started letting Elina out to play on it. Initially, she didn't want to go down the slide and she didn't want to swing. B was kicking himself, "Why did we get this thing??" Slowly Elina came around...and now she LOVES the swingset. She climbs up and slides down by herself. She swings a lot more now. It's great! Now when we go to other people's houses, she actually goes down the slide and sits on the swing. I guess it was worth it!

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Just Peachy

This past weekend we went back to Marburger Orchard to pick peaches. This is the same place we went to pick strawberries a few months back. B's all-time favorite fruit is the peach, so we HAD to go peach picking with him.
We got really lucky with the weather. It was a cloudy and breezy day. Perfect for outdoor manual labor. We've been having scattered thunderstorms for the past few days here in San Antonio and it's been a nice change of pace.

Picking peaches was a lot easier than picking strawberries because we didn't have to do deep squats every few seconds. But it was still a difficult task because we were on the "quest to find the perfect peach" (as B liked to call it). It's just that when you see a peach tree, only 10% of it actually ripens each day. So there might be 50 peaches on a single tree, but you have to really look to find the 5 that are just right. It was more searching than we had imagined. We thought we could just pull off ripe peaches left and right while intermittently stuffing our faces with ready-to-eat peaches. Sadly, this was not the case. We picked Red Globe peaches, so even when they are ready and picked, they still need 1-2 days to really ripen and taste delicious. That was hard for Elina to understand. She thought it was like strawberry picking where she could just pick and eat simultaneously. Since she couldn't eat the peaches right away, she started straying away and checking out the blackberry bushes (blackberry season just ended). She found a stray, ripe blackberry and just threw it into her watering mouth without consulting us. I felt bad and just let her eat that one and another one that we found later on. Who could blame her? We ended up asking the nice people at Marburger to sell us just one of their ripe peaches and they kindly gave us 2 for free. When we bit into that peach though...it was like heaven. Seriously, how is Elina ever going to eat store-bought peaches again???
Elina had fun picking peaches. B and I would find the right peaches for her to pick. Since B had Eli in the carrier, I had to find the peaches for Elina and then lift her up so that she could actually pick it herself. It was a chore, but she loved picking them off of the tree. She was always so proud of herself after she got the peach.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

The Circus Came to Town

This year the Barnum and Bailey Circus came to San Antonio for the 4th of July weekend. We weren't planning to take Elina because we didn't know if she would be scared or excited. But since all of Elina's neighborhood friends were going, we felt the peer pressure and decided to take Elina after all.

It was actually more enjoyable than I had thought it would be. Even J, who dislikes the circus, was entertained. We went to the pre-show to see animals and acrobats up-close. The animal side is actually really sad because it's just all these animals inside pens and cages--like the zoo, but worse because space is so limited. The acrobat side was more fun. We got to see clowns juggling and jumping on trampolines. We even got to see Asia, the elephant who can paint (abstract art, that is).

The show was pretty entertaining, although J and I agreed that we could really do without the animals in the show. It's just sad to see a bunch of beautiful horses run around in a small ring. The tiger part was scary because the tigers looked like they wanted to claw out the trainer's eyes. They were so angry and constantly showing their teeth. Yikes. The only animal part that was really cute was the dog act. They had poodles and toy dogs doing all sorts of tricks. One poodle even rode one of those razor scooters! It was pretty cute (even J thought so).

Elina liked the acrobat stuff, especially when they climbed up to the top of these very high poles. She was very worried and kept asking, "How are they going to get down??" Elina applauded when everyone else applauded and danced when she heard music playing. But after a few acts, she started to lose interest and asked to go home. So we left early, after the intermission. But we were ok with that because we didn't have to deal with the long lines and big crowds exiting the Alamodome. (Am I old, or what?)

All in all, it was a fun time and I'm glad we went. Now Elina knows what the circus is, J isn't so anti-circus anymore, and I got to see a poodle ride a scooter. What a day!

Friday, July 4, 2008

Well...

One of Elina's new things is to say, "Well....." before everything. Here are a few examples:

**
Me: Elina, do you want to go to the playground?
Elina: Well.....ok.
**
Me: Elina, should we go upstairs?
Elina: Well....maybe.
**
Me: Do you want to play Crazy Eights?
Elina: Well...yeah!

She also likes to use the word "maybe" a lot these days. This was how she used it one day:

Me: Elina, you should go down the slide. It'll be fun!
Elina: [a little wary] Well...maybe I'll go down the slide...and maybe I'll have fun.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Green Beans

[Of course, right after I complain about not being able to upload this video clip (see previous post), it uploads perfectly! Maybe I should have complained about it earlier.]

These days Eli is enjoying his solid food. Unfortunately, I've become a lazier mom this time around. With Elina I would cook, puree, and freeze all the fruits and vegetables. Elina didn't get much jarred baby food at all. But life with 2 kids is a little more hectic and tiring, so I am poppin' open jars left and right for Eli--AND I'm not really feeling as guilty as I thought I would. Go figure! I told B it's kinda fair for the 2 kids--I didn't nurse Elina as long, but she got homemade baby food; I'm still nursing Eli now, but he's getting jarred baby food. Sounds about right.

Well, so far Eli has eaten sweet potatoes, peas, green beans, and bananas. He's loved sweet potatoes from the very beginning. It's definitely his favorite. Peas grew on him quickly. Bananas were a hit. But green beans...yikes! It took this guy a while to learn to like these. I can't blame him though. I'm not a real fan of them either...the smell, the color.

"They" tell you that it's natural for your baby to make weird faces when trying new foods. After all, the smell and texture are different from breastmilk/formula. Eli made all types of weird faces when he tried everything, even the sweet potatoes that he loves. BUT I think there's a difference between making a weird face and actually gagging and coughing after tasting something. Here's video footage of Eli's first taste of green beans. You be the judge.

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Apologies...Lots to Do

I know that I haven't been posting as often as I used to. Apologies to people who actually check this blog often! Blogger's been giving me trouble with uploading this one funny video of Eli. I've been trying to upload it for the past few days!

Besides that, I'm spending all my free time planning Elina's 3 year birthday party, which is in about 10 days. We're going with a Lilo and Stitch luau theme since Elina is in love with the movie. What's strange is that no one carries Lilo and Stitch stuff anymore even though there is a cartoon series on the Disney channel. I went to the Disney store the other day and all they had, besides the movies, was one Stitch stuffed animal--ONE! And forget about party supplies. No one carries them. You can get them on ebay, but it'll cost you an arm and a leg. (Think $10 for 8 Lilo and Stitch cups.) So, I'm busy trying to figure out what I can draw and how we can decorate things in a different way. The thing is, it's easy to decorate for a luau themed party, but what does a 3 year old know about luaus?? If I only do luau stuff, she'll see the party decorations and think, "Wow, palm trees--big deal!" Unfortunately, she's never been to Hawai'i and she just won't get it. But if she sees Lilo and Stitch everywhere, she's guaranteed to jump for joy.

On top of all this, Eli has decided that he is an early bird. For those of you who know me, you know that I am NOT an early bird. Eli starts making noises a little before 6am, folks. I'm dying over here! So I've been trying to get to bed early--meaning before 11pm. Hence, I haven't had as much time to post entries.

So there's the quick update on my life to explain why I have no time for anything other than catching up on sleep and planning a Lilo and Stitch party! Exciting, huh?